for the last time – do not place her in the cookie cutter mould and expect the same consistency, texture and golden brown finish as how they did for you. people are not made this way; to be placed in cardboard boxes labeled LEFT / RIGHT / CENTRE and then conveyor belted down accordingly to their labels. watch someone grow and give them ample space, freedom and choices to carve out their own destiny as opposed to cruelly forcing opinions down their sore throats and then creating the illusory image of democracy – haven’t you heard of taking everything with a pinch of salt.
for the last time – do not place her in (specifically yours) the cookie cutter mould. people are not made this way, to be manufactured, stunningly stifled by your standardization and if she chooses option (d) when you have only presented option (a) (b) and (c), then so be it.